Honestly, I'm not super-excited about Forty-six, but I figure nothing amazing has happened with the guys I have wanted to go out with, so why the heck not? He and his friend stopped me a couple of weeks ago as I was heading into a pub and asked if I knew where they could find some live music. They were friendly (and I apparently needed attention), so I talked with them for a few minutes before they asked where I was headed. I told them I was meeting some friends inside, and I said they could join me while they waited for their friends. I introduced them to my people, they made themselves comfortable, and random conversations occurred. At one point one of them, possibly Forty-six, asked my friend what her relationship status was because he thought it might be useful information. I thought that was amusing but didn't really pay much attention because I wasn't interested in either of them. Why? I'm really not sure. They were nice enough, entertaining, and they weren't hideous; I just wasn't attracted to them (possibly because they looked older than me, and we know "older than me" isn't my normal type). When they left, Forty-six gave me his business card and told me to email him because "Even if you aren't interested or available, we're having a party and I've got friends and you've got friends - it could be fun." I agreed, thanked him, hugged the guys bye.
Two weeks went by when I found his card in my purse. I decided I had nothing to lose, and a story to gain. So I emailed him and asked if he wants he to meet up for coffee. Now we wait.
P.S. They told one of my friends that they weren't really looking for live music, they just asked about it to strike up a conversation. Conversation activated. Try it out next time you want to talk to someone.
I like this guy and think you are having difficulty with him bc he is stealing some of your game:)
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